What we’re also seeing in today’s technological day and age, though, is howetiquette comes into play in group chats. Whether the group message is with friends or coworkers, you may want to practice etiquette to some degree. Having good manners is important when showing values like respect and for building a comfortable community. But what does it look like in a setting as seemingly informal as a group chat? What are the group chat “rules” that everyone abides by but never talks about—and are you breaking one of them?
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When Do People Typically Use Group Chats?
Additionally, group chats might be created for the following groups:
FamiliesSiblings Leadership teamsCoworkersClubsFriend groupsReligious groupsBachelorette partiesFriends planning a get-together And many moreLuis Alvarez/Getty Images
According to Dreizen, no, it’s not rude.
Also, your response doesn’t have to be in the group. “If, for some reason, you feel uncomfortable responding in the chat and the response does not affect everyone in the chat, feel free to answer the question directly to the asker outside the chat,” she adds.
7 Unspoken Group Chat Rules You Should Never Break, According to an Etiquette Expert
Besides the question of not responding to a group text, what are the other considerations when group-texting, specifically regarding unspoken “rules”? Dreizen shares and explains the major ones below.
“The group chat can feel like sitting together on the beach at night with a fire: You wouldn’t just bring anyone to that energy,” Dreizen explains. “First, ask the chat if you can invite someone new, and then ask the new person if they’d like to be part of a group chat.”
2. Read up before you respond
“If you’ve missed some stuff, give yourself some time to catch up,” Dreizen suggests. “You never want to be in the position of responding to the last half of a thought or plan—take a breath and get all the info.”
“If you’re in a chat planning a trip, be mindful if that’s the same chat you want to break down your argument with your mom [in], even if some of your best friends are in that chat,” Dreizen says. “Keep it focused.”
4. Don’t screenshot and share
This comes down to respect and trust. “If you’re going to screenshot something because it’s funny, relatable or [you] want to share some info, let your fellow chatters know and ask permission, even show them the clipped out screenshot,” Dreizen recommends. “But using a group chat against the people in it is generally not great.”
“Don’t divulge or argue in a space where someone you don’t fully know is,” Dreizen suggests. “You might have good group chat manners, but we don’t know how everyone else is.”
6. Keep side conversations in side chats
“Running a parallel conversation in a group thread excludes everyone else and clutters the main thread,” Dreizen explains.
7. Know when to move it offline
“I used to have a boss who would look at certain emails and say, ‘Yeah, this response is a phone call,’ Dreizen says. “Sometimes, the best response is a phone call… Knowing when is important.”
Dreizen encourages being gentle and saying something like, “All of the notifications are a lot for me, and it’s hard to keep up. Could you guys make a new thread?”
“While it’s totally fair to ask to get out of the group chat, you don’t want to create double work for someone inside it to keep you apprised,” she continues.
“You can just give a simple, ‘Hey, all, I need to streamline my notifications, stepping out of here! Talk to you each on your own!'” she says.
Final Takeaways
When in a group chat, remember to:
Not add additional individuals without checking with the group.Read all of the texts before responding.Match the energy of the chat.Not screenshot and share people’s messages.Be mindful of who’s in the chat.Keep side conversations in side chats.Move certain conversations offline.Up Next:
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