While not a clinical term according to some psychologists, a high-level narcissist can really describe someone who simply exhibits heightened traits of a "regular narcissist." According to Dr. Lainey Butler, PhD., it can "refer to someone with narcissistic traits that may be less obvious, that are still negative and impactful," she says."A person who displays a high level of narcissistic traits might appear very accomplished and charismatic," she says. "Or they might function very well or appear to in interpersonal relationships on the surface, while the impact of those traits can be felt more so in those close relationships."Related: One Thing You Should Never, Ever Do if You Have a Narcissistic Parent
The #1 Thing You Should Never Do With a High-Level Narcissist, According to Psychologists
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There are a slew of other things you should try to not do around a high-level narcissist. Here are three more examples.
2. Don't try and fix them
Dr. Klein explains that this type of person often comes from a background where they were used as "a narcissistic extension" to their own caregivers. This essentially means that they were never viewed or treated as someone with real feelings, but rather as a tool to cater to someone else's narcissistic needs.She says it's important not to engage with trying to fix this aspect of their past."I would never recommend that someone engage with a narcissist around those more vulnerable elements," she states. "It can be very triggering for a person to beat a narcissist over the head with what happened to them in childhood. The context has to be forgiving for that."
3. Don't engage in the power struggle
How To Deal With a High-Level Narcissist
Ultimately, this might be the biggest question most of us have when thinking of a high-level narcissist. It can feel impossible to deal with them, especially when you must interact with them in places like the workplace or community spaces. But all hope is not lost. According to Dr. Butler, there are definitely situations, whether it's between family members or a boss at work, where "one might display those traits, and you can't always do something about that."Related: 35 Phrases To Disarm a Narcissist and Why They Do the Trick, According to TherapistsBesides therapy and emotional regulation, she says even simple things like "boundaries and calmness can be really helpful."Other times, it's sometimes better to walk away altogether, says Dr. Klein."Generally, the best thing to do is to exit the situation," she shares. "You're not going to get much traction fighting your side."Up Next:
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Dr. Maya Klein, PhD. is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst in California.Dr. Lainey Butler, PhD., is a licensed psychologist for ChangeWell Psych in North Carolina.Dr. Tammy Causey, PhD., is a licensed psychologist for Integrative Psychology Solutions in Arizona.Hence then, the article about psychologists warn never do this with a high level narcissist was published today ( ) and is available on Parade ( Saudi Arabia ) The editorial team at PressBee has edited and verified it, and it may have been modified, fully republished, or quoted. You can read and follow the updates of this news or article from its original source.
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