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2. Show children what it looks like to self-advocate
"Model healthy boundaries by saying 'no' when needed—and [let] your children witness that it's okay to speak up, even when it’s hard," Dr. Clayton recommends.
4. Be on the lookout for fawning
"Get curious about how people-pleasing might be unintentionally passed down," Dr. Clayton stresses. "If you grew up in an emotionally chaotic or unpredictable environment, you may have developed a fawn response—and without realizing it, you could be reinforcing the same in your child."
Am I more comfortable when my child is quiet, agreeable or easygoing?Do I feel embarrassed when they cry in public, challenge rules or express strong emotions?Do I say things like “Just be nice” or “Don’t make a scene” before understanding what they’re feeling?
"These patterns are common—and becoming a parent is often what brings them to light," Dr. Clayton explains. "That awareness is a powerful doorway. By doing our own healing, we give our children permission to show up fully as themselves. We stop passing down the belief that they must shrink to be safe or loved."
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Dr. Ingrid Clayton, author of Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves—and How to Find Our Way Back, is a licensed clinical psychologist with a master’s in transpersonal psychology and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. She’s had a thriving private practice for more than sixteen years and is a regular contributor to Psychology Today, where her blog “Emotional Sobriety” has had more than a million views.Hence then, the article about a clinical psychologist is begging parents and grandparents to start doing these 4 things was published today ( ) and is available on Parade ( Saudi Arabia ) The editorial team at PressBee has edited and verified it, and it may have been modified, fully republished, or quoted. You can read and follow the updates of this news or article from its original source.
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