The Internet is full of scripts to help you with different scenarios you might run into. For example, there are tips on how to sound like a gentle parent and set firm boundaries with a toxic relative, or check in with a friend without overstepping. What we say makes a big impact. That being said, while words matter, sometimes, you say a lot without saying anything at all thanks to our body language."Nonverbal cues are all the things our body is doing without ever having to make a peep," says Jenny Dreizen, an etiquette expert, co-founder and COO of Fresh Starts Registry and author of Simple Scripts to Support Your People.She explains that arm tension, the angle of your head and even the way your cheek muscles look can tell a story about you."More often than not, [nonverbal communication] cannot lie," she says. "[These] are the introduction your body makes before your mouth has even opened to say hello. Your posture, gestures and facial expressions send a message about who you are, what you value and how you carry yourself in the world."Want to come off as chic and sophisticated? They say you can't teach class, but Dreizen is proving otherwise, offering seven nonverbal cues that make you seem instantly classy.Related: 7 Phrases That Instantly Make You Sound Classy, According to Etiquette Experts
The eyes are a window to your soul—and mind and character. If you want to make a classy first impression, Dreizen suggests focusing on your gaze."Maintaining soft but steady eye contact lets people know you are actively engaged in conversation with them," she says. "They will feel seen and heard and not like you are more interested in that conversation over there."
2. Confident posture
Don't get it twisted—confidence is classy, not a turn-off. Your body lingo can radiate a confident-meets-inclusive vibe."Keeping your shoulders back and relaxed, head up and back in a comfortable straight position will make you appear warm, confident and welcoming," Dreizen says.Related: 5 Things Classy People Never, Ever Reveal About Themselves in Public, According to an Etiquette Expert
Classy people are like the human equivalent of summer breezes."Try to remember your goal is for people to feel at ease around you," Dreizen states. "Relax your mouth, observe the world and try to let the tension drop from your eyes. You want to look pleasant without having to plaster on a smile."
4. Intentional, confident walking
Exude class from the moment you walk into a room by walking with quiet confidence and intention."The way you move your body through a space says a lot about you," Dreizen says. "Dragging your feet, slouching or stomping indicates to others that something is off. Instead, try moving slowly, with intention and confidence."Related: 9 Subtle Ways Your Body Language Might Make You 'Instantly Unlikable,' Psychologists Say
Stay connected to the people you're actually with. Ironically, this cue involves a bit of disconnecting from your devices."Making others feel warm and welcome means focusing on them when you are together," Dreizen explains. "Do not check your phone constantly. Do not sit scrolling."Sometimes, you may need to be plugged into your phone, such as if you're waiting for a loved one to come out of surgery. That's OK."If you need to check your phone, mention you need to check it, check it and then put it away," she says. "Being involved in your phone when in community with others can indicate to them you are bored or uninterested."
6. Breathing
We do it without thinking. However, Dreizen says intentional breathing is a nonverbal cue that can ensure you come off as instantly classy. Why? Because it'll help prevent you from verbalizing something that makes you sound rude or mean."Before responding, it is OK to take a beat and a breath," she emphasizes. "You aren't on a timer or a sitcom."Use that time to script a less reactionary, more tactful response that displays pure class.Related: An Etiquette Expert Is Begging People To Stop This ‘Rude’ Habit in Social Settings
7. Comfort with stillness and silence
Maybe after taking that breath, you decide to stay still and silent. That's so classy. In fact, you can even embrace a prolonged pause in moments when things are calm."Part of being an inviting person is learning to get comfortable in the quiet moments, both alone and with others," Dreizen points out. "Do not feel like you have to fill every quiet beat— it can be an overwhelming experience for both yourself and others."Related: Psychologists Say These 9 Habits Make You Seem Insecure Without Realizing It
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Dreizen says it's crucial to focus on what your face may be telling the other person."You might not realize you're rolling your eyes or making a smirk, but your companions do, even if they don't consciously realize it," she explains. "Be mindful of your inner thoughts leaking straight through to your face."
That doesn't mean you have to lie or go heavy on toxic positivity."While we want to be authentic with others, we also have to be mindful of processing our own judgements in our own mind rather than spewing them all around the conversation," Dreizen warns.That includes the judgments you communicate without words through expressions and other forms of body language.
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