DEAR MISS MANNERS: I know you’re going to think this is a made-up letter, but I assure you it’s not. (But then, I’d say that even if it were, wouldn’t I?)
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This happened to my husband and me a few years back, when we were camping in Europe.
The people who owned the land were horrified to think of our sleeping outside in the cold. With hand gestures, they made it clear that they would be insulted if we did not accept their hospitality for the night. Not wanting to be ugly Americans, we did.
They generously gave us their own bedroom, which included the aforesaid chamber pot. Necessity compelled us to use it. But the next morning …
We wound up leaving it in the room, and I still wonder: What was the correct thing to have done?
GENTLE READER: If you are able to decipher “Stay in our bedroom or you’re an ugly American” from a hand gesture, Miss Manners feels certain you can figure out one for, “There is poop in the potty; what do we do with it?”
Because no doubt your hosts came up with their own hand gesture when they discovered your unpleasant surprise.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am one of a group of friends who have known each other for 30+ years, from early middle age into what are now our “golden years.”
We’ve been through a lot together, supported each other through individual struggles, and been there for the good times, too.
We are all now widowed, but still get together regularly to enjoy plays, operas, dinners out and to celebrate each others’ birthdays. These are occasions for us, not just “let’s meet for lunch,” and we dress for the occasions.
At these times, I make it a point to offer a sincere compliment to my friends — anything from how well they are looking, to a becoming choice of clothes or an attractive hairstyle — knowing the time and effort it takes to put ourselves together. But no one ever seems to reciprocate, and this bothers me.
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Am I just a petty narcissist? Fishing for compliments? If not, how do I tactfully approach my friends on this subject?
GENTLE READER: “Don’t we all look nice?”
Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, gentlereader@missmanners.com; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.
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