On Urban Dictionary, a back-to-school necklace is described as "another name for a noose. This is due to the utter despair you feel when school starts back up again." Some examples of its use include: "I'm about to buy my back-to-school necklace," "I can't wait to get a back-to-school necklace," "Thinking about that back-to-school necklace," "That back-to-school necklace is calling me," "I can't wait to wear my back-to-school necklace," etc. So, although a back-to-school necklace sounds innocent enough to those unaware of its real meaning, it is actually a cry for help as it's a code for death by hanging. But once parents are educated on this term, they are in a better position to help.Related: 14 Phrases to Instantly Lift Someone's Spirits, According to a Therapist
How Should Parents Talk About This Phrase With Their Children?
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Some apprehension is understandable as students have to adjust to a new normal after the summer months. "Returning to school can feel overwhelming for a variety of reasons," Cavaleri shares. "Some students struggle with thoughts of a new school, a new teacher, a new schedule, etc. Students are going from sleeping in and a relaxed schedule, to early mornings and busy days." And oftentimes, these struggles feel insurmountable for students. After all, the CDC has revealed, "More than 1 in 3 high school students had experienced persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness in 2019, a 40 percent increase since 2009." "I think it could be a combination of what socialization has looked like the last [three] years on top of the age," Westhouse expands. "If we think about it now, 13-year-olds were 10 when we were all in lockdown. [They were] doing school virtually and missing out on regular clubs, sports and socialization. Add in mass school shootings and what we have experienced in our world over the last few years. It all makes an impact."Related: Scriptures That Shine Light in the Darkness—Here Are 35 Bible Verses for Depression
What Are Some Warning Signs Parents Should Be On the Lookout For?
"Students should know that using this phrase is very serious," Cavaleri warns. "Joking around about harming yourself and especially killing yourself is not ok. If they are truly having these feelings, they should not feel ashamed and seek help. If students hear or see their friends using this phrase, they should tell an adult, even if their friend tells them not to." Westhouse agrees, saying that even if your child or teen is quick to brush it off, they should know "that it's serious, even if they think it's a joke. I would encourage you to educate your child, and if they notice their friends using the phrase, to address it with school staff." Related: 10 Best Mental Health Podcasts
What Resources Are Recommended To Help Children and Teenagers Who Are Feeling Overwhelmed by the Return to School?
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Emily Cavaleri, LLMSW, school social worker and child and family therapistSamantha Westhouse, LLMSW, psychotherapist and maternal-infant health social workerHence then, the article about what is a back to school necklace all about this disturbing trend that parents need to know about was published today ( ) and is available on Parade ( Saudi Arabia ) The editorial team at PressBee has edited and verified it, and it may have been modified, fully republished, or quoted. You can read and follow the updates of this news or article from its original source.
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