If you’ve been looking to elevate your diction to communicate more effectively, you’ve landed on the right page. While there’s uniqueness and beauty in the many ways in which people speak, there are specific phrases you can use that can help you appear more "high-class" due to the psychology of communication and status.Whether you want to make a good impression when meeting your partner's parents for the first time or you want to impress your boss at a work dinner, there are many situations where you might want to sound especially high-class. Pish posh, you might say. But it's relatable! We're not advocating for elitism here; there are just moments when you might benefit from seeming a bit more upper-crust. If anything, it'll teach you more etiquette, which is always useful.Parade spoke with two psychologists to learn more about how what we communicate can be indicative of one’s "status" or make it appear higher. They also share nine phrases that "high-class" people often use—along with their significance—which you can adopt moving forward. Related: 5 Things Classy People Never, Ever Reveal About Themselves in Public, According to an Etiquette Expert
What Does ‘High Class’ Mean?
There are several ways you can sound more "upper-class." Without even thinking about wealth or status, Dr. Santorelli notes that if you're calm and regulate your emotions—which gives you an air of authority—and have social intelligence, you will come off as more posh.“People perceived as ‘high class' often speak with calmness and restraint (never rushed or reactive), use indirect, polite and gracious language, avoid slang or harsh words, sound confident without trying to prove themselves [and use] phrasing [that] reflects self-assurance,” she explains. Over-explaining and seeking validation in some instances may detract from how high-class you might seem, though. Dr. Cynthia Shaw, a licensed clinical psychologist and owner of Authentically Living Psychological Services, adds that clarity and speaking intentionally can help one sound more "upper-class." “Think about what you're wanting to convey and how to express those thoughts in the most direct, clear, and respectful way,” she advises. Related: 9 Things High-Level Thinkers Notice That the Average Person Ignores, According to Psychologists
9 Phrases ‘High-Class’ People Often Use, According to Psychologists
2. 'I see your point, and I think (XYZ).'
While it might be tempting to say, “No, that’s wrong” or “I don’t think so,” when engaging in conversation or disagreement, how you express an opposing point of view can be pivotal when it comes to how you’re perceived by others. “Just because you express pleasantries, doesn't mean you have to agree with what is said,” says Dr. Shaw. “Agreeing to disagree, such as [with] 'I see your point, and I think (xyz)' invites healthy dialogue and shows respect even when faced with opposing views.” Dr. Santorelli adds that acknowledging the opposing perspective before offering your own shows empathy and can prevent a feeling of defensiveness from the person when you offer your opposing perspective. Related: 8 Phrases To Shut Down Conflict That Instantly Make You Sound Classy
4. 'Shall we?'
While more of a question than a phrase, Dr. Santorelli notes that “Shall we?” is common among "upper-class" individuals as it prompts collective action without appearing forceful, and reduces the potential for pushback and/or resistance. “High-class communication often guides without commanding, signaling collaboration rather than control,” she says.
6. 'That’s very kind of you.'
Similarly, Dr. Santorelli notes that the remark, “That’s very kind of you,” is another common phrase used by high-class people to express gratitude without being overly emotional when receiving kindness or generosity from another person. “High-status individuals are accustomed to others complying with requests, and this calm, measured statement signals that,” she shares.
8. 'Do forgive me.'
Dr. Santorelli notes that “Do forgive me” is commonly used by high-class people to apologize for minor inconveniences or mistakes. Since this phrase is typically used to offer an apology for smaller actions, this phrase "accepts responsibility without over-apologizing or creating awkwardness,” she explains. Furthermore, the wording of this phrase is graceful and eloquent, which demonstrates maturity.
9. 'I’d be happy to.'
Related: 12 Things Emotionally Intelligent Women Do That the Average Person Avoids, Psychologists Say
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Dr. Noëlle Santorelli, PhD, is a licensed clinical psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia.Dr. Cynthia Shaw, PsyD, is a licensed clinical psychologist, Certified Grief Professional, Approved Clinical Supervisor and the owner of Authentically Living Psychological Services.Hence then, the article about 9 phrases high class people often use according to psychologists was published today ( ) and is available on Parade ( Saudi Arabia ) The editorial team at PressBee has edited and verified it, and it may have been modified, fully republished, or quoted. You can read and follow the updates of this news or article from its original source.
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